Last weekend my wife and I had the pleasure of attending the Age Management Medicine Group meeting in Ft Lauderdale, with a variety of renowned speakers addressing sexual function. The good news is that there is a great deal we can do with lifestyle and medical therapies to optimize sexual performance, which is important when 30% of adult men and 40% of adult women have some degree of sexual dysfunction.
20 million men suffer from erectile dysfunction (ED). Only 5% of men under 40 have ED, 52% from 40-70, and 70% by age 70. It is an alarming thought that very commonly, the first sign of cardiovascular disease (meaning high risk for a heart attack or stroke) is erectile dysfunction. Decreased blood supply to the genitals is the most common cause for ED. In fact, men with ED should be assumed to have early signs of cardiovascular disease until proven otherwise. Other common causes of ED are low testosterone, low fitness, and uncontrolled chronic stress.
For a man and woman, the ability to enjoy sex at least three times per week is a good sign that you are healthy and fit. Intimacy also enhances romantic relationships between partners. Achieving climax has many health benefits, as the surge in oxytocin hormone levels with orgasm will:
- Decrease cortisol levels (cortisol is a stress related hormone that accelerates many aspects of aging)
- Lower blood pressure and pulse rate
- Improve quality of sleep
- Increase bonding between romantic partners
The first step to enhancing sexual function is to optimize your level of fitness and diet. Second, especially for men, is to build intimacy and tenderness in a relationship. If these steps don’t achieve your goals, then additional medical testing and medical treatments can be very helpful.
Active sexual function is like any other athletic activity. The fitter you are the better you perform. Romantic fitness requires strength, aerobic capacity, and flexibility. If you can’t comfortably keep your heart rate in the 130-140 range for at least 15-20 minutes, romance becomes a struggle. You also need enough leg, arm and trunk strength to support yourself for extended periods of time. As Jeffry Life MD points out, “the flexible man is a sexual man. As men age, flexibility is the first thing to go and is often ignored.” So Pilates and yoga are great for your love life!
Don’t forget Kegel exercises, which strengthen the pelvic floor. In women, Kegel exercises enhance sexual function, increase orgasms, and help prevent urinary incontinence. In men, Kegel exercises can make erections stronger and harder and improve ejaculatory control. To perform a Kegel lift, sit on the toilet to urinate and after urine starts to flow, lift the pelvic floor and stop the urine flow; this pelvic floor lift is one Kegel contraction. Once you have the lift feeling down, try ten Kegel exercises in a row several times during the day, and with time build to 30 lifts several times per day. Nobody will know that you are practicing your Kegel exercises each time you stop at a red light, send an e-mail, or hang up the phone.
In men and women sexual arousal and function is dependent upon adequate production of a compound called nitric oxide, which increases blood flow. In men this improves erections. In women, increased blood flow enhances engorgement and receptivity. The good news is that several foods increase nitric oxide levels nicely.
Nitric oxide production is dependent upon the foods we eat. In particular, arginine is an amino acid (protein building block) that is converted into nitric oxide. Eat foods high in arginine and expect better arousal. Lean meats, nuts and seeds, dark green leafy veggies, and beans are all high in arginine. Soy protein and shellfish have the highest concentration of arginine from food. Look below for a list of foods with arginine content per 200 calorie portion.
- Soy protein isolate: 3500 mg per 200 calories
- Shrimp, clams, oysters, mussels, and crab: 3000-3500 mg per 200 calories
- Frozen spinach: 3300 mg per 200 calories (that is a lot of spinach, about 3 cups frozen)
- Turkey breast: 3000 mg per 200 calories
- Game meat (deer, elk, ostrich): 2500-3300 mg per 200 calories
- Chicken breast: 3200 mg per 200 calories
- Fish, white meat: 2500 mg per 200 calories
- For a more detailed list, visit: visit http://nutritiondata.self.com/tools/nutrient-search and search arginine rich foods.
Some of the arginine in food is broken down with digestion. So aim for 3,000 to 5,000 mg of arginine from food daily. For men with ED, I’ve had excellent results giving an arginine supplement with just 500 mg of arginine (Perfusia) twice daily.
While food and fitness are great to optimize performance, intimacy is an essential component for wonderful romance. For men, arousal can start with minimal stimulation. For women, it is more complicated and dependent upon the overall relationship and being relaxed. Most men already know that random acts of kindness are essential to building trust and tenderness. A day enriched with a surprise breakfast, hand holding, a kiss on the cheek, a warm cup of tea, and a tidy home go a long way to setting the mood for romance.
In my next vitality tip, I’ll discuss medical testing and treatments to enhance romantic function.
To Your Health and Happiness!
Steven Masley, MD, FAAFP, CNS, FACN












